I've spent a lot of time and energy lately on traveling smarter and better. Here's some of my best advice!
1. A travel toiletry or makeup kit. This is one of the most essential things I carry. I'm female and have a lot of stuff to bring. My husband has a smaller one, because he's a guy and has less crap to carry with him. Why do you need this?
Many reasons. First and foremost is to keep your toiletries separate from your clothes. It's that simple. What if something leaks? This provides that added barrier that could save your clothes. I have one that hangs up. It's a great thing because I don't even unpack the entire thing. It's hanging there in the bathroom ready to use. Pack smart and don't pack full sized bottles of anything and this little idea will be your best friend.
By keeping this kit, I've managed to designate a space in my bag at all times, so I know exactly how much space I have for everything else in that bag. Can't stress this one enough. Whether you're a guy and need a little one or a woman and need a lot of room; particularly if you wind up carrying some of your man's stuff, because he didn't pack as well.
https://www.cntraveler.com/story/best-toiletry-bags
https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-toiletry-bags/
https://theeverygirl.com/best-travel-toiletry-bags-for-women/
2. What luggage should you use? I've run the gamut on this one, and I've learned a lot. I've spent many a 10 day trip in Europe, whether it's multiple countries or a single city, and here's what I've learned. Pack light, take a small bag. Period.
If it doesn't have four wheels that make your bag follow you everywhere you go like a well trained puppy; you bought the wrong bag. If you have anything much larger than a carry on; you picked the wrong bag. If you brought multiple checked bags for one person; you did it wrong. If you have soft sided luggage; you did it wrong. If you feel the need to attempt to take your luggage on the plane; I can't help you.
I recently went to Europe for a week and a half. There were people on my flights that checked five or more giant pieces of luggage for a group of less than five. There was more than one group like that I witnessed. It's ridiculous. My husband and I each carry a small hard sided four wheeled well behaved bag. I carry a cross body bag for my essentials and electronics and he carries a back pack. That's all we take.
I carry light clothes and an all weather jacket. He does the same. I carry meds, headphones, camera, phone, charging stuff, batteries, and a bottle of water in my bag. He carries headphones, meds, a book, a bottle of water, charging stuff and batteries. That's all we take on the plane, plus wallets and passports. How does this work?
We normally rent an apartment in Europe. It's all the rage in most other countries and it's quite affordable. This means we normally have a washing machine. We do laundry. What happens when we don't have a washing machine? Do your research. I normally make sure we can go to a laundromat close by if we don't have laundry on site. You don't run 20 hours a day, so take the time and wash your clothes. It's not a big deal and it cuts down on luggage.
Here's a tip. You show up with a carry on sized bag and agree to check it and they'll probably do it for free. The airlines are always offering to check carry ons to make space on the plane.
Why do I say hard sided? Soft sided luggage is fine and most come with four wheels these days, but I have one thing to say about it. Weather. Things have far less of a chance to get wet in rain in a hard sided bag.
Here's a note. Where to shop for luggage? My favorite spot is Burlington. Great prices. Anything you need or want.
https://www.packhacker.com/blog/general/best-carry-on-luggage/
https://www.cntraveler.com/story/best-carry-on-luggage
https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-checked-luggage/
https://www.outdoorgearlab.com/topics/travel/best-travel-bag
3. Communication. It's the most important part of your trip. I promise you. This covers everything from finding your way around to making reservations, to keeping in touch with your teenagers at home. I struggled for years. I got sim cards at the airport upon arrival for each and every country. I used a pay up front travel plan. I've tried the ever popular esim. What did I get for all that?
I have a stack of old sim cards at home. That's a waste if I ever saw one. Travel plans to pay forward are just going up and up in cost. They also tend to change activation rules to something you can't do like text someone to activate it in a country. Pain the the butt. Esims are pretty good, but once again you deal with it from country to country. Last trip I didn't even fly into the country I was actually visiting, so I had to take a train across a border and that would have been two hassles even with an esim.
So, what's a girl to do? Especially someone old like me? I'm a problem solver. I went to the Google Store and asked them to just make it all work. I walked out with a Pixel 10 and Google Fi's international plan. Sounds expensive? It does sound like that. However, phones are expensive. That ruled out worrying about that aspect. The international plan on Google Fi runs $65 per month or $55 if you have two lines. Does that sound expensive? Maybe, but I found out that you get discounts for buying the phone outright. I won't say how much, because I don't know if it differs from person to person. Sometimes that's a thing.
What does this mean? I understand that people love their iPhones and Samsungs and so forth. But, this Pixel has an amazing camera. I left my professional camera at home, and still got great pictures and videos. It's got the best phone camera I've ever encountered. The Google Fi service claimed to work seamlessly in over 200 locations. I went to five countries in my travels for various reasons, and the thing just worked. I got a message saying welcome to whatever country I'd just entered and it just worked. I had to pay $.20 per minute to make calls, but other than that it was seamless and worked absolutely everywhere I went. It even welcomed me as I crossed a border in the middle of nowhere on a train.
This Google Fi Pixel experience just worked. I love the phone, the camera and the service. I went into a Google Store, but I hear you can also go to Best Buy and get the same service. They did all the work. They transferred everything and made sure it all worked for me. I'm old and not that proficient with phone programming and transfers. They did all the work and I was on my way with a true travel solution. Here's my favorite part. If I have a question about my phone or my service; I just ask my phone. It's all Google, which is something you don't normally run into. I had a Moto on Verizon. Now I have a Google Pixel on Google Fi. It really simplified my life. I also advocate this as a phone for people in my age group which is 50-80. It's that easy. Even I can use it.
https://www.androidheadlines.com/google-fi
I covered this on a video for 6/5/2026 on my YouTube Channel "Adventures for Anyone with Terri Dixon"
https://www.youtube.com/@adventuresforanyone2026
4. The perfect coat or jacket. This is a tough one. I suppose it depends on where you're traveling to. If it's a cold location; you need a puffy jacket with a hood. If you buy the right one, you can even get a heated one that TSA will allow you to wear on a plane, but make sure you do your research. Not all heated jackets will be allowed. One of the things that are helpful with cold weather locations is that you will want to wear the coat while flying. This takes out a lot of the guesswork as to what to pack.
On the other hand, if you're going on a trip like the one I just came back from; you may have varying weather, limited space and some decisions to make. Here's what I do, and it works. I have a shell that can handle a hurricane's worth of rain with a hood and it's tough. It's lightweight, packs up tight and has enough pockets for me. It's attractive enough that I can wear it to dinner. It works. My husband has a similar jacket, only for men. I pack a compact jacket in case it gets cold. Mine is worn with my shell that I wear for rain. It looks good, and I always wear one of the jackets on the plane if not both, depending on the season. My husband carries a nice sweater that packs up nicely to wear under his coat. It works. The brand isn't important as long as you work it out so that you can wear layers and be versatile without taking up a lot of room in your luggage. My shell is a raincoat that I used to wear to an outdoor job I had years ago. It's good looking and really tough. My husband's jacket is Amazon Basics. Nothing fancy; just appropriate.
https://www.cntraveler.com/story/best-lightweight-rain-jackets-for-travelers
https://www.rei.com/c/rain-jackets/f/f-packable
https://community.ricksteves.com/travel-forum/packing/women-s-packable-rain-coat
https://www.outdoorgearlab.com/best-rain-jacket
https://www.travelandleisure.com/best-packable-jackets-8378780
5. What to and not to wear while traveling; especially in another country. When I'm at home, I look like a tourist. I love my souvenir tshirts and sweatshirts. I do. That's why I buy them. I live in New England and there's nothing better in the cold months than a big soft hooded sweatshirt. I pick them up here and there, and when at home; they're most of my wardrobe worn with jeans and sneakers. It's who I am.
Then, there's travel me. When I'm in Europe in particular, I don't really want to stand out. I don't want to look like a tourist. If anyone has ever heard about how easy it is to spot an American tourist in Europe; it's not a joke. I can spot them in a hot second myself. But, it's more than sticking out with gaudy tshirts and ripped jeans, and stupid looking sneakers. It's a matter of practicality and safety.
Hear me out. First of all, when you travel, I've said it. Don't bring your whole wardrobe. Bring carefully chosen items. If you do this; you will have an interchangeable wardrobe that's easy to pack. You might pick a color theme with mix and match items. I do that all the time. You might take a skirt instead of all jeans, as I do just in case I need to fancy it up a bit. I do wear sneakers and I'm just too old to wear anything trendy, but trendy will make you look like an American. Plain comfortable shoes is how I go. I also take some little flats in case I go out. It's all part of being Practical.
Then, there's the safety aspect. If you're wearing a tshirt, sneaker tag that says American; you could be making yourself a target. You might get scammed by a taxi driver. You might get bothered more by beggars. It happens. Most of the rest of the world thinks that people from the United States all have a bottomless pit of money and can afford to suffer the indignities that go with the locals trying to get their cut of it. It's a way of life. I try not to look flashy at all. I dress nicely, but I only bring one versatile set of jewelry and it's not fancy. Wearing flashy gem jewelry around will bring you trouble. Pickpockets, muggers, scammers and the like will spot flashy jewelry right away. They'll also spot expensive shoes and those sneakers that you want to show off. I carry a cross body bag that zips up. Firstly, it's across my body making it tough to grab and run. It's also more comfortable for me to carry, so win win. It's harder to pickpocket someone who's bag has a zipper closing. Just a fact. It's a nice bag, but practical. I only carry it when I travel.
Everyone has their own style, but don't dress like the ugly American. Everyone notices, and it might not work to your advantage.
https://europeupclose.com/article/what-to-wear-in-europe/
https://jonesfamilytravels.com/what-not-to-wear-when-traveling-abroad/2023/03
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-not-to-wear-on-vacation_b_5794ba02e4b0e339c23f1479
https://www.travelandleisure.com/multi-use-europe-travel-outfits-carry-on-only-amazon-11988164
That's my best advice. Remember, I'm not paid by any manufacturer or designer or even Google. These are my personal recommendations and thoughts on the topics, and I hope it helps you plan a better, easier and more safe and fun vacation. Enjoy!

















































